You told the group bits of it because you had to, but you came at me with more than a little hostility before you explained anything and left me wondering if you hated me for a month.
Naoto, I'm sorry that you're in this situation, but there isn't a quick fix for this. If you like her company and want her to trust you then you have to show the same trust. Trust obviously goes both ways, and if she's showed her vulnerable side to you then it's probably worth doing the same to her.
I'm not saying shout it to the rooftops that you're a girl if it's that important that you appear to be a boy, but open up about it with the people you care about before it becomes absolutely necessary. If you wait till then, it is going to seem like a betrayal of trust because they never really knew you at all, and like you're only trying to save yourself potential embarrassment. That's showing them your true self, and if you want to make and keep close friends, you have to do that.
The only possible fix is time, and you have to ask her to forgive you. And hope that she does.
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Naoto, I'm sorry that you're in this situation, but there isn't a quick fix for this. If you like her company and want her to trust you then you have to show the same trust. Trust obviously goes both ways, and if she's showed her vulnerable side to you then it's probably worth doing the same to her.
I'm not saying shout it to the rooftops that you're a girl if it's that important that you appear to be a boy, but open up about it with the people you care about before it becomes absolutely necessary. If you wait till then, it is going to seem like a betrayal of trust because they never really knew you at all, and like you're only trying to save yourself potential embarrassment. That's showing them your true self, and if you want to make and keep close friends, you have to do that.
The only possible fix is time, and you have to ask her to forgive you. And hope that she does.