I was angry with you because, from my perspective, you were telling people something I try to keep private. Obviously, that was a misunderstanding and I corrected my view of the matter.
I suppose the threshold at which I'm comfortable telling someone this reality is significantly further along than the threshold at which they feel betrayed at not having learned it. I don't know what to do about that.
I just don't see why it matters so much. Aren't I the same person regardless of my gender?
I didn't ask her to develop feelings for me... I was trying to help her.
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I suppose the threshold at which I'm comfortable telling someone this reality is significantly further along than the threshold at which they feel betrayed at not having learned it. I don't know what to do about that.
I just don't see why it matters so much. Aren't I the same person regardless of my gender?
I didn't ask her to develop feelings for me... I was trying to help her.