I was angry with you because, from my perspective, you were telling people something I try to keep private. Obviously, that was a misunderstanding and I corrected my view of the matter.
I suppose the threshold at which I'm comfortable telling someone this reality is significantly further along than the threshold at which they feel betrayed at not having learned it. I don't know what to do about that.
I just don't see why it matters so much. Aren't I the same person regardless of my gender?
I didn't ask her to develop feelings for me... I was trying to help her.
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I suppose the threshold at which I'm comfortable telling someone this reality is significantly further along than the threshold at which they feel betrayed at not having learned it. I don't know what to do about that.
I just don't see why it matters so much. Aren't I the same person regardless of my gender?
I didn't ask her to develop feelings for me... I was trying to help her.
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You don't have to return her feelings, but you can't expect there to be a quick fix for that either.
Time will tell, that's all I can say. But this is the root of the trouble.
I do hope you can resolve it. I really do.
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I never have.
Emotions are fickle and logical and irrational.
I hate this, Yukiko. It's frustrating.
[There's another long span of time.]
Thank you for the advice.